hi everyone, i didn't mean to disappear. i feel bad about posting only twice in january. i've been busy. no, i mean...even when i'm busy, i always wrote. so that's not it. i mean i am mentally overloaded. it's been stressful. i can't think of anything. my mind is all over the place, then blocked. too many things to deal with. other than that, all is well. really? :-) the boy is back in school and doing well. just little headaches once in a while when he has to concentrate really hard. but, that's something that was expected and he has to deal with it. so it's a new month. let's make it nice.